Several people said how that is how their last relationship was and in the end it did not work at all because the sparks never got off the ground. Can't tell you when, but I can tell you that you will. In all of my years of trying to decode women 'speak', it's easier to just listen to what it is they say. So what do i do now? Finding the perfect companion online to create a great relationship has become so much easier than before. That said, if a person is married or has children, of course this would be a tad hard-core.
Just relating to the story from experience, well, numerous experiences similar to this one. As a premium dating site, we've made it easy for you to search, browse and find your ideal mate and hopefully the love of your life. I'm not sure i could just be friends, even though she wants me to remain in her life, she said i was her best friend and didn't want to lose me. Pull back and they will come to you. Have her tell you that she wishes the next guy could be just like you? Chase and they will go away. And you don't forsake a friend, imo, ever.
Sorry, man, I know the feeling. . There's a saying that to this day I believe it's hold true. Sorry captain, that was uncalled for. Probably not gonna happen for the reason you want it to. I empathize, man, I really do 'cause I've been there more than once.
Don't call me-I'll call you. Page 1 of 2 , She's probably being the most honest she can with you. I just can't see it, would find it hard to see her with someone else. She may discover that she does love you that way but in the meantime, you go on with your life as if she will not be in it. Who knows why she woke up one day and said that? Its only been a couple weeks for you two.
Sometimes it hurts to hear the truth but, personally, I'd rather know the truth than to keep trying to make something work that will never work. To have her tell you how incredibly happy she is with the guy she's currently banging? Consider it one of life's lessons and move on. Don't even try to get back with her, it'll only make you look like a grovelling wimp. If you just back away, you lose everything. Sorry, man, but those are the things you will hear. Good luck and be thankful that you weren't married or have kids involved. Don't they have some kinda rescue program for the running dogs that haven't won a race in awhile? The offer of friendship is nothing more than a way for her to assuage her sense of guilt over dumping you.
Do i just leave it, or do i tell her that i'm going to move on etc as she expects us still to remain friends? If you're adventurous and interested in singles cruises or trips for singles, then we have several and so don't forget to check them out in our singles travel pages. We also have and if you like we have those too. You have the right philosophy, just need a new girl! You've apparently felt that, and she hasn't. If she ever calls tell her everything is the best it's ever been and end the call. No real need to look or delve much further.
Is it an sshole move? The best thing is to preserve your dignity and walk away. She has said that if she does feel different then she would let me know. Of the women I've truly loved in my life, there has been friendship and commradery, but there has always been an undescribable spark. There's a wonderful woman waiting out there just for you, so chalk this up to experience, give yourself sufficient time to mourn what wasn't to be and move on. I suspect that most people have had many more lovers than best friends. But no one ever said war and breakups weren't ugly. Been there, done that a few too many times.
If you two can stay friends, you will have a very good friend but if you can't get over your feelings for her, then it's best for both of you to end it and be done. It is nothing more than that. It doesnt mean that youa re a bad person, obviously the relationship isnt making her happy anymore. So if you're single and looking to find other local singles who want love, our search is what you're looking for this site has some great filters that help you find Local Love. Here you can find single men and women who are looking for love! But there's nothing more that can be done, because the answer is locked up in the mind of someone who can't express herself; do what you need to do to grieve because every breakup is similar to death , and then get back out there. She has said that if she does feel different then she would let me know.